I’m nesting.Not for kids or for a family or for the winter. For myself.
Ugh – yes, my late 20s, this is the reckoning. My boyfriend told me the other day that I have a hard time getting rid of things because too many things bring me joy. In addition, I’ve had trouble prioritizing in the past. Until we started dating, I still wore the same coat I wore in middle school. Even though I have started sporting a newer coat, the other still hangs in my closet. Because I anthropomorphize everything, every time I think of throwing it away, I get a brief but vibrant memory of the first time I put it on.
My cold fingers wrapping around the warm fabric cuffs, burrowing my nose down the collar, mmm, it’s so warm, I’m just so warm. I’m walking through the esplanade to class. It’s raining.
Marie Kondo would tell me that I should thank this coat for providing me so many good years and throw it away. It won’t be of any use to anyone else, I don’t think. But progress has moved slowly around this home. I started with jeans that no longer fit me, too big or too small. These were, somehow, the easiest things to let go of.
As I tiptoe closer to a new decade I look at the things around me and realize how little I really need. It’s becoming more important to save for nice things that will last a long time and provide me with greater comfort.
There is no right way of adulting, but there are some standbys that I strive to achieve. Being on time as a sign of respect. Sending snail mail for important occasions. Figuring out how to navigate and conquer things no one ever taught me in school (how to have a career, how to do my taxes, what a retirement fund is, etcetera).
And, quality over quantity. Slowly but surely.
Some adult, and one adult, things of quality I especially appreciate:
- The Reliable Toy – It’s a Hitachi, surprise!
- The Perfect Sheets – Calvin Klein. Albeit, covered in kitty scratches.
- The Moisturizer Collection – First Aid, Caudalie, Argan Oil.
- The Water Bottle – Swell. Keeps it cold, cold, cold.
- The Journal and Pen – Leuchtturm, Cross/Pilot.
What are some things you have kicking around the house that you have prioritized quality over quantity? How did you come to that choice (trial and error? lucky guess? read reviews?) Need a recommendation? Submit your questions to http://www.suggestivetongue.com/ask