Relationship Tip: Pretend You’re Single

If you break up and she cuts her hair, man, it’s over. She’s moved on. I was thinking about this idea the other day and how I personally have acted and re-acted after breakups. A breakup can be a rebirth. You realize all of the ways in which you had begun to stagnant. So you…

Just because it’s not your fault, doesn’t mean it’s theirs.

Sometimes relationships end. It doesn’t mean that they have failed. We have a habit of casting blame on where and when a relationship failed because we want it to make sense. Imagine the end of a relationship as a tiny death. If you are in grief, you want someone, or something, to blame. We want…

1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married

We’re reading a book called 1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married. We started reading it about a month or two ago and it’s been an extraordinarily valuable experience. With 1001 questions you’re essentially guaranteed that you can discuss all of the issues that are important to you and your partner without feeling like…

Double Dating for Relationship Longevity

If you want to have a healthy long-term relationship, find relationship mentors. A relationship mentor can be anyone who has a relationship that you admire. A relationship mentor can be someone who you feel has a similar lifestyle to you. The age of the mentor doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter if they are same sex or opposite sex…

Prioritizing Our Love

We prioritize the things that are important to us. When someone is not important to us, we will make excuses. We’re too busy to see them. We can’t do the things that they want to do because we’d rather do the things that we want to do. Our needs come first – their needs come second….