The Report 1.20.17

nothing guarantees an orgasm When a list on the internet that ‘guarantees’ orgasm claims things like ‘sending a sexy text’, ‘trying doggy style’ or ‘alternating your tongue’s movements on a clitoris’ are all going to BLOW HER MIND…. it hurts the people that this won’t work for. st says: Important and critical advice. If something…

The Report 1.15.17

why more writers should talk about money In the past few years, some writers have begun to more openly approach questions of class. The internet has seen a profusion of such pieces: A writer who is “sponsored” by her husband calls on other writers to be more transparent about where their money comes from. Another…

Girl Alone in Bar

The barista asks me how my coffee is from across the room. The mug is so small that the chill from my fingers has pulled the warmth of it in the time it took me to sit down, open my laptop, and connect to the wifi. I enthusiastically tell him that it is fantastic. He looks…

Good Reads Cheat Sheet

mens bathrooms should have baby changing stations Right now, while many public women’s restrooms have baby changing stations installed in them, many men’s rooms do not — so many, in fact, that it sometimes feels like a conspiracy of the patriarchy to ensure that men never have to change diapers. a pediatricians view of paid…

What To Do When You Kiss Someone Else

The lights have dimmed low, you’re happy, you’re drunk, you’re engaged in a deep conversation with a thoughtful stranger about something emotionally important, and you feel a connection. Opportunity is a starting point for infidelity of any size or shape.  You’re relaxed, you’re happy, and you’re feeling something that says keep going just for a second and figure…