Opening Your Relationship and/or exploring ethnical non-monogamy

  1. Love In Abundance A Counselors Advice On Open Relationships
  2. Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
  3. Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage
  4. Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure…and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner
  5. The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
  6. Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality
  7. Sex from Scratch

Thinking about Love, Marriage, and Infidelity

  1. Lust in Translation: The Rules of Infidelity from Tokyo to Tennessee
  2. Just Marriage
  3. The Brain in Love: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life
  4. The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage, and My Family
  5. Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage
  6. Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships
  7. How to Love

Books about Sex & Sexuality

  1. The History of Sexuality 1: An Introduction
  2. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
  3. Why Is the Penis Shaped Like That?: And Other Reflections on Being Human
  4. Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women’s Love and Desire
  5. Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex–and How to Get It
  6. How Pleasure Works: The New Science of Why We Like What We Like
  7. The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women
  8. Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
  9. Playing the Whore
  10. The Ultimate Guide to Kink
  11. Sex for One
  12. Come as you Are

Books about the complexity of Gender

  1. Redefining Realness
  2. A Queer and Pleasant Danger
  3. My New Gender Workbook
  4. As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl
  5. Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference

Children and Parenting

  1. The Opposite of Spoiled: Raising Kids Who Are Grounded, Generous, and Smart About Money by Ron Lieber

Other Favorite Fiction & Nonfiction

  1. The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science
  2. Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates


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